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BEFORE FOLLOWING/INTERACTING (BFI)/(BYF)

before anything, just know i lost someone really close to me. they took their life, and it's been messing me up a lot more than i thought it would. ever since it happened, i've kinda shut down. i stopped showering, stopped brushing my teeth, stopped doing basic stuff like eating or even talking to people. i know it sounds gross or lazy but it's not that simple. depression already made things hard but now it's like 10x worse.

someone from school even texted me once 'cause i had a smell. that shit was embarrassing but it made me realize how far gone i was. i joke around a lot n act like everything's fine but it's really not. if i've been weird or off with you, it's not on purpose. i don't mean to hurt anyone or come off like an asshole, i'm just not doing good rn. not saying this for pity or anything, just explaining. pls don't be too hard on me. i'm tryna deal with it even if it don't look like it.

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Please tell me if anyone I follow is problematic.

Do not interact with me if you haven't read my DNI before, and don't even reach me if you recognize yourself on my DNI list.

Don'ts!!1

mock my beliefs

mock my conditions

yapping about my opps

complimenting me using female compliments/terms

**Another BFI/BYF**

**Before you interact/follow (BYF) !!**

Hey, just so you know, I've got really bad social anxiety, and I tend to freak out about interactions. If I leave you on seen or on delivered, it's NOT because I don't care I just get stuck in this loop of not knowing what to say or if I should reply at all. Because I don't want you to think "oh they answered after all this time, they surely don't care" I DO. Time passes, and then I feel even worse about it. Please don't be pushy or say stuff like, "You post stories but don't answer!" That just makes it worse. I love all my moots and I'm trying my best to be a good friend, so please be patient with me.

I also overthink emojis, tone, and punctuation. Like yeah I might rewrite "ok" five times before I send it. Just know if I reply weird or short, it's not shade. just don't dry text me

Any person of such age can interact with me. I don't care a lot, just don't be weird.

I AM VERY SENSITIVE please don't be mean to me, I will take anything as if it was rude, for example if you don't understand something do not put "?" I do find it rude

Do NOT repost any of my posts. As in in other social media. don't send weird stuff to me mostly if you're way older. though like i said anyone can interact but not weirdos.

If my content doesn't fit what you usually like, block me. Any hate comment will be deleted, I don't have time to deal with these. I'm cringe? Yes, surely, but I just wanna have fun. If you came here from another social media to hate on me for my comments, i'd rather you to bring it into my dms. but if I say that I don't want to talk, please respect my choice.

If you know that you will not accept who I am based on what I wrote here, respectfully DNI

My DMs are open so you can ask me any question. I will answer it ! (if i'm not comfortable or for some reason i dimiss you, do not insist, i don't want to awnser.) On the other hand, I will not be able to assure the fact that I will answer or that I will answer quickly.

If you're a boy/identify as a boy, I might not "talk" to you a lot for example if you want to call because my family are against me having friends of that gender. (They really freak out and are extremely religious. Even if I AM a boy myself.)

I make kys/kms jokes with close friends. (example : i'm gonna kms/fuck i'm a retard etc. i'm very stupid and i keep saying that, if i don't understand stuff please be patient.) if you are talking with me and see me make one and don't like it, let me know! i'll stop, i just need to note it if it's in instagram (your name) or on discord (notes) i also reclaim the t, f and r slur because i can use it! but i don't use it that much!! i also can tell them to kys when they do something that i'm uncomfortable or he is uncomfortable with. beware. I cannot control it though. it is not me who does it.

i might do some stuff like *patpat* or *hugs you* if i do like you, do not interact if you find it cringe

Don't quote tweet me/comment with "wtf is this" if you don't get it. I'm not explaining myself to strangers, this ain't a TED Talk.

If ur the type to "joke" by being mean 24/7, just block me. IDC if it's "dark humor," if you roast me daily I will literally cry

Basically if you're normal and chill, we'll vibe. If you're weird and mean, go touch some grass.

I might do very inappropriate jokes/jokingly flirt with you. Tell me if you're not comfortable with it, thats my humor

Do NOT send me "a single "?" Or "ok."

I realized people don't need me and I don't need them. I don't deserve any love someone can give me,

I react with 🥀 on instagram and i do NOT use it on how people do it on tiktok to mock others "ts is so tuff".. it's because Waluigi have a rose in a lot of games.. and i like him, no i LOVE HIM

Please avoid...

- Venting in my comments |- Telling personal info in my comments

- Making sexual comments about me IN THE SAME COMMENT SECTION AS MINORS

IMMEDIATE DNI (BLOCK ON SIGHT)

DNI / Do Not Interact
  • MAPs/p-dos/z00philes/inc3st shippers or apologists
  • Transphobic people & transphobic detransitioners (people that used to be trans and hate on trans ppl)
  • Trans meds/trans médicaliste (people that believe that you need to be on T/estrogen + make surgeries to be trans, or think that you absolutely need dysphoria to be trans)
  • Racists/sexists/homophobes/transphobes/aphophobes/bigots of any kind
  • Anti-vaxxers/anti-maskers/COVID deniers
  • Pro-life/"pro-birth" individuals
  • Alt-right/far-right/conservatives/Republicans
  • TERFS/SWERFS/exclusionists of any kind
  • White supremacists/Nazis/fascists
  • Pro-police/military glorifiers
  • NFT/crypto bros
  • Anti-fandom/anti-fiction crusaders
  • Minors under 10 (sorry, I discuss mature themes sometimes. if you're already moots with me it's fine)
  • Adults who actively seek out minors for friendship
  • Anyone who romanticizes mental illness or trauma
  • Anyone who uses tone indicators to mock neurodivergent people
  • People who ship problematic/abusive dynamics untagged
  • Anyone who doesn't respect content warnings or trigger warnings
  • People who follow/interact with anyone on my DNI list
  • Rage bait/burner accounts
  • Xenophobic, islamophobic/Muslimphobes
  • Zionists, Israel supporters, anti-palestine
  • Antisemitic people
  • Fatphobic people or skinny shamers
  • Proshippers, darkshippers, comshippers, antishippers
  • Ableists, Colorists, Orientalists, Anti-BLM
  • Not applying the boycott
  • Anti-furry, dark romance addicts
  • "conservatives goths"
  • Misanders and misogynists
  • Transmisogynistic people
  • Transmeds
  • "minors dni"/ parasocial people
  • Thirst trap accounts
  • Hazbin/helluva/vivziepop/meowbahh/the coffin of andy and leyley fans (the one that defends them, either way you guys are ok)
  • Psycho cuties, boyfriends webtoon fans
  • Omocat, Camila Cuevas, JK Rowling fans/supporters
  • Vivziepop defenders/supporters/media fans
  • INTENSE religious people, satanists
  • You fetishize mlm or wlw or asians or any race
  • Postal 3 "doesn't exist" spam joke repeaters (it's tiring, not funny. Reddit aah joke, we get it.)
  • Ppl who say *the bad ending is canon* in postal 3 (it's not. stop spreading nonsense.)
  • Ppl who call Postal 3 Dude a zoophile or pedophile (he's not. go touch grass.)
  • Anyone who hates postal 3 just to be edgy/clout-chasey
  • Postal 1 dude and Postal 2 dude shippers.
  • Medic x Scout shippers. And you justify it by the fact that they're both adults; the age gap isn't moral.
  • DSMP fans. you know why.
  • TCC fans or ppl who romanticize true crime or murderers (like jeff dahmer stans)
  • Proshippers / comshippers / "fiction ≠ reality" discourse weirdos
  • Defenders of exposed predators
  • Ppl who think "it's just a drawing" is a defense for child sexualization in art
  • Ppl who excuse incest/abuse ships as "dark content"
  • Ppl who ship children with adults in ANY context (even in fandom)
  • Edgy fandoms who treat irl trauma like an aesthetic
  • You agree with any video that moonwalkermusic reacts to.
  • TTC
  • You're discriminatory towards minorities.
  • You support pedophilia, zoophilia, loli/shota, pro-shipping, or anything along those lines.
  • You subscribe to other right-wing beliefs like being anti-BLM, pro-Zionism, etc.
  • You misgender and dead name "bad" trans people like Lily Tino. You're a trans ally until the person is a bad one.
  • RadFems
  • dni if you think being trans only counts if someone has dysphoria. some of us do, some don’t — that doesn’t make anyone less valid. liking your body doesn’t cancel your identity.
  • dni if you think being trans is just a phase, a choice, or something people do for attention. it’s not. it’s real, it’s deep, and it’s not for you to decide.
  • dni if you think people have to “prove” their transition by changing how they look, taking hormones, or getting surgery. not everyone wants that. not everyone can afford that. And honestly, not everyone needs that to know who they are.
  • dni if you weaponize detransitioners to discredit trans people. they deserve support too. it’s not a gotcha moment, it’s a reminder that people are complex.
  • and dni if your idea of being trans is stuck in some outdated checklist. being trans isn’t one-size-fits-all. it’s personal. let people be.
  • RTCA
  • tcoaal fans
  • maga supporters
  • you're into CNC (consentual non consentual)
  • You're apolitical/right
  • You'resuperstraight (exclude trans people) ew...
  • You joke about women/girls
  • You joke about LGBTQ+ people
  • You joke about trans people
  • You joke about mental health/illness
  • You joke about disabilities
  • You joke about religion
  • You joke about body size/appearance
  • You joke about sexual assault/abuse
  • You joke about suicide/self-harm
  • You actively support the harrassement of proshippers/darkshippers
  • You say that's it's SA to not tell someone that you're trans. fuck off.
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